Have you been on the lookout for your “One and Only”? Has your ‘The One’ been a subject of your curiosity for long? It is important to state that there is no right or wrong way of knowing whether you are in love or when you may have found ‘the love of your life’. So how do we truly know when we have found that special person whom we want to be with for the rest of our lives?
Have you found the one? Here are a few signs: https://youtu.be/80DaQjCWvs4
Disclaimer: This is for educational purposes only and does not mean that signs like these mean indefinitely that somebody is or is not the love of your life. These examples were selected as they are supported by research and have been mutually agreed upon in references listed in the description box below.
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