How to listen like a therapist: 4 secret skills

How to listen like a therapist: 4 secret skills

Improve your relationships by learning the 4 secret skills that therapists use every day.

0:00 – Introduction to active listening skills
1:22 – Reflect back what you hear
3:08 – Ask “What is this like for you?”
5:23 – Validation
8:04 – Understand ambivalence (motivational interviewing)
10:39 – When to do these skills and why they are hard
11:15 – Therapist secrets playlist:
11:34 – Get comfortable being uncomfortable weekly challenge & comment of the week
13:27 – Additional video resources
– How to deal with emotions in a healthy way:
– How to overcome anxiety with exposure:
13:35 – My Get comfortable being uncomfortable goal
14:49 – Thank you for an awesome 2019!

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